This mod stops all autonomous making of bar drinks from all bars and the Glamour Life Stuff globe bar. It works for all Sims as well as butlers for the regular bars; it does NOT work for butlers with the globe bar. A separate mod for that will be coming soon.
The downside regarding butlers is that with regular bars, this mod doesn't allow them to make a drink even if a Sim tells them to. If you click on that option you WILL lose 8 Simoleons but get no drink. I am trying to come up with a workaround.
This mod allows ordering from a bar that is staffed by a bartender as well as drinking drinks that are already made. It should not stop bartenders in any situation from making drinks.